By Presvytera Melanie DiStefano, MDiv-Holy Cross
As Orthodox Christians, we are called not only to believe the Gospel, but to live it. Christ reached out to those who felt overlooked, isolated, or marginalized, reminding us that every person is created in the image and likeness of God. During Disability Awareness Month, we reflect on how we can put our faith into action by creating a more welcoming and inclusive parish community.
The Greek Orthodox Archdiocese’s “Just Say...” campaign begins with a simple but powerful message: “Just Say Hi.” While it may seem small, a warm greeting can make a tremendous difference. A smile, eye contact, and a kind “hello” communicate something every person longs to hear: You belong here.
Hospitality means respecting one another’s dignity and personal space. Mobility devices, such as wheelchairs, walkers, or canes, are extensions of a person's independence and should never be leaned on, moved, or handled without permission. Likewise, it is important to avoid touching or hugging someone without consent. Simple acts of respect create an environment where everyone feels valued and safe.
Thoughtful communication is another way we can show Christ’s love. When speaking with a person who is blind or has low vision, adding verbal context can be helpful. For example, rather than silently extending a hand, say, “I am extending my hand to shake yours.” Clear communication allows everyone to participate more fully in fellowship and parish life.
For individuals who are deaf or hard of hearing, visual forms of communication can make meaningful connections possible. Facing the person when speaking, ensuring visibility for lip-reading, offering a friendly wave, or using a smartphone or notepad to exchange written messages are simple ways to foster connections.
This year’s campaign also encourages us to be comfortable using the word “disability.” The term is respectful and widely accepted. Most importantly, we should listen to and honor the preferences of each person. If someone uses a particular term to describe their diagnosis or disability try to respect that choice. When uncertain, it is perfectly acceptable to ask. A sincere question demonstrates a desire to understand.
Putting our faith into action does not require grand gestures. Often, it begins with a greeting, a respectful conversation, and a willingness to learn. By embracing every member of our community with Christ-like love, we ensure that our parish is a place where all are welcomed, valued, and able to fully participate in the life of the Church.
For information on disability initiatives and support resources to help improve accessibility at your parish, visit: www.goarch.org/fully-human and www.goarch.org/OBOA
