A healthy, balanced ego is essential for being a healthy, balanced Christian. God does not want his followers to be timid souls filled with self-loathing. He wants strong and courageous personalities who are so confident in the love of God for them that they share His love generously with others. But a healthy ego is not egotistical. And removing egotism is what St. Paul has in mind in today’s epistle reading when he says, “It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me” (Gal. 2:20). Here, the word “I” is in Greek egô. Distinguishing between a healthy ego and unholy egotism requires wisdom and a great deal of self-examination. Two things are helpful to consider. First, we must remember to pray for our enemies. St. John Chrysostom says that St. Paul prayed more for his enemies than others pray against their enemies. Egotism makes us think that crimes against us are unforgivable. A healthy ego will defend itself against abuse, as both Jesus and St. Paul did during their ministries. But Christ said from the cross, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.” In the same spirit, St. Paul said, “When reviled, we bless.” Praying for enemies crucifies egotism. Second, we must imitate the example of Christ, who came not to be served, but to serve (Mark 10:45). The world does not exist to be dominated but to be served. Do we always need to point out where others are wrong? Can we not rather find ways to respect others with differing opinions? Do we squeeze every penny from business transactions? Should we not instead strive to find ways to be fair to all sides? St. Paul would rather be wronged than disturb the harmony of the Church (1 Cor 6). We must do likewise.
Fr. George Parsenios is Professor of New Testament at Holy Cross Greek Orthodox School of Theology. www.hchc.edu





